lovers quarrel

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hi folks….

do lovers always quarrel?

is it normal to quarrel?

why do lovers quarrel?

i thought lovers are supposed to be lovey dovey “i love u n u love me till eternity”.

but then, perhaps im wrong..

but why do lovers quarrel?

in fact, lovers quarrel more often than others….. :)

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How to save your relationship?

I found this article at Yahoo featured.. Some good one and others are more theory. Probably it is not viable to me..

  • Remember the point of the fight is to reach a solution, not to win, be right, or make your partner wrong.
  • Don’t try to mind read. Ask instead what he or she is thinking.
  • Don’t bring up all the prior problems that relate to this one. Leave the past in the past; keep this about one recent problem. Solve one thing at a time.
  • Keep the process simple. State the problem, suggest some alternatives, and choose a solution together.
  • Don’t talk too much at once. Keep your statements to two or three sentences. Your partner will not be able to grasp more than that.
  • Give your partner a chance to respond and to suggest options.
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    help!! i have been cheated!!!

    folks….is cheating part of lying? which one is more severe?

    is cheating the same as lying?

    so when you cheat, means you lie….right?

    if you lie, does it mean you cheat?

    if cheating is lying and lying is cheating……i bet that most of us have gone through this ugly phase in our lives.

    what would you do when someone you love cheats you…..ermm perhaps we’ll tackle this issue in another posting.

    but right now, we’ll talk about another form of cheating.

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    blog, blogging, bloggers………what do you think?

    :)

    well well well….

    it is interesting to discover nowadays that suddenly blogging has somehow now been the sought-after mode of communication. we have seen some light at the end of the tunnel i presume :)

    suddenly it has become ultra popular ……….suddenly everyone wants to have his own blog…..suddenly everyone wants to be identified as a blogger.

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    how to be successful, how to be rich?

    all of us want to be successful, right?

    all of us want to be rich too, right?

    but then, you do not have to be rich to be sucessful….

    success can come in many forms.

    at the same time, you do not have to be successful to be rich…

    wealth can come in many forms too.

    nevertheless, being successful and being rich are always combined as a single package.

    to most of us, success means rich and rich means success.

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    fly with time or be lost forever……….

    ;)

    greeting to all lonelyhurts readers and frenz…….

    happy labour day to all of you……..

    wow….how fast time flies………

    we have come to the middle of 2008 already. how far have we gone in our lives?

    how much have we achieved?

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    where is asmawi?

    good day lonelyhurts…….

    ladies n gentlemen, while we still wait for news on sharlinie…….now we have asmawi to worry about as well.

    little asmawi was found missing some time last week near his residence.

    what is happening here folks is appalling…

    have some members of our society started some sort of child trading business here?

    where have these children gone?

    are they being transported out of the country to work as child labourers? or are they still around in this country, confined in their kidnappers’ hideout not being able to escape?

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    we love our nation

    do you love your nation?

    do you love your state?

    do you love your constituency?

    i bet the answer to all this is a resounding YES….for the results in the recently held elections have shown.

    the society has become ONE….the society has become UNITED…..the society has DECIDED…

    the media cried, “change”……”wake-up call” ……”tsunami” etc…..

    the elected representatives now, whether there are from the current ruling party or from the incoming new/freshly elected ones must be able to deliver their respective manifestos.

    the society MUST remain ONE, UNITED and decide the course forward…..IMPROVE.

    it is a basic fundamental principle in life that if we want to improve, we need to change.

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    Gong Xi Fa Cai :)

    Gong Xi

    Gong Xi

    :)

    well well well…..hope that all of you wonderful people out there had a great time during CNY.

    Im sure after a week of merriment and fesitivities, the mood is back to normal now…

    Or perhaps there is another mood coming up already?

    It’s the election mood :) or shall i put it as election fever.

    Election is held when a govt of a country’s term expires or is about to expire.

    It is held in order for the administration to seek a further mandate to administer a nation/a state.

    In our country, election is held every 5 years (sometimes before 5 years).

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    what a new yr to begin with……

    Time is running out

    happy new year to all….

    the mth of january 2008 is coming to an end…

    in a flick of time, february 2008 emerges to greet us all.

    the start of the year has been challenging, if i may say…..challenging to our immediate selves, our families, our society…

    another child has gone missing and as we speak, she is yet to be found……

    where is sharlinie?

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