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Howdy folks….
Greetings to all…..
It has been a pretty exciting week for all of us don’t you think?
Though I am not an american but I do love all things america heheheheh…..
With the huge win by the democrats yesterday, we at lonelyhurts pray that there there would be love around the world with new foreign policies to be introduced.
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November 6th, 2008 | Posted in My 2cents | No Comments
Have u guys heard of the saying ‘if you love him/her, let him/her go….’
Familiar?
You hear this on different occasions…
When would you apply the above lines? It could be in favour you or be against you.
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September 23rd, 2008 | Posted in Dilemma | 4 Comments
In the search for love, it’s all too easy to get sidetracked by bad dates, broken hearts, and bad love habits. And while bad dates and broken hearts are part of the dating journey toward happily-ever-after, bad love habits can and should be avoided at all costs.
So what’s a bad love habit? Any dysfunctional, destructive, difficult belief or habit you have towards love and relationships that’s keeping you from finding, attracting, and/or maintaining a healthy relationship. The following are some common bad dating beliefs:
You choose potential partners who are incapable of meeting your emotional needs.
You think love has to be difficult, painful, and/or hard.
If any of the above sound familiar, don’t worry. You’re not a lost cause. In fact, with a little time and effort, you can turn things around! What follows are five simple and effective tips and techniques geared toward helping you break free of limiting relationship beliefs and bad dating habits. Practiced over time, you can and will kick any bad dating habit — for good!
1. Identify the dating traps you’re stuck in
Think you’ve got to miraculously solve all your problems before you’ll be deserving of love? Convinced there are no good “ones” left? Or do you believe that your perfect partner will one day swoop in and magically save you from your life? If any or all of the above sound familiar, chances are good that you suffer from some common dating traps.
In order to become a successful single, you first need to free yourself from these traps. Acknowledging the traps you’re stuck in is the first step. Next, you’ve got to break free of these traps, as well as any other limiting or destructive beliefs that are keeping you stuck. To find out how, keep reading.
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September 19th, 2008 | Posted in Tips | No Comments
Hey hey hey…
080808….hmmmmmmmm I bet this day will be a day full of activities.
Wedding bells ringging, 0808-4D number queueing….hehehhe.
It would be the date to find yourself a date…..hahahahaha
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July 31st, 2008 | Posted in Featured | 5 Comments
When you are lonely, what do you do?
It depends on the individual, I would say.
Some would cry, some would laugh, others would gaze at the sky.
There are many things that we engage in when we feel lonely.
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July 31st, 2008 | Posted in Featured | 1 Comment
Hi all..
Phew…..what a day/week for all of us…..
Recently our nation has been so hyped with activities that it is like running around the football field 10 times….i.e. exhausted, full of heat and the adranalin pumping in your veins…for the faint hearted, some of us might have even collapsed to the ground. As for the light hearted, you might have laughed and giggled your way throughout the day/week.
As for me, I am pretty sure that I belong to the faint hearted + the light hearted catergory, a mixture of the two. 
Anyway, amidst the hype that week, I was posed with this question by a friend. I guess he had a hyper week as well just like all of us so that was why that question came….it was a like a supplementary question in Parliament…. hehehehehehe.
He asked me, “If there is a dispute between your wife/girlfriend and your mum, whom would you side?”
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July 18th, 2008 | Posted in Dilemma | 2 Comments
Nowadays it’s so hard to find love that you need to give yourself a pat on the back when you have found one
Wow!!…what an accomplishment.
Well, hmmmmm maybe its easy to find love but its not easy to find true love….am I right to say this?
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July 10th, 2008 | Posted in Guest | 2 Comments
You know, people say ‘Don’t mix business with pleasure’
Some would say ‘Don’t mix politics with religion’
Right now the talk of the town is ‘Don’t mix love with politics’
What do I mean by this?
The general notion that we all recite everyday is ‘Love thy neighbour’ ‘don’t do harm to others if you don’t want others to do harm onto u’
But lets put the general notion aside…let’s look into reality becos my granny used to say ‘reality bites’ while my granpa used to say ‘reality hurts’
My mum and dad say ‘Either way, you’re screwed’
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July 1st, 2008 | Posted in Question | No Comments
Hi hi hi everyone….
At last……lonelyhurts is back….
My apologies for the sudden brief disappearance… (no no no..this is not David Blaine or David Copperfield antics)
The sudden brief appearance is due to some technical glitches on the team’s part.
Hey….oooops before I forget again, we at lonelyhurts have got our own team…yeah folks….the team is made of the lonelyhurts members themselves….thanks KZ for reviving lonelyhurts again….you have brought life to lonelyhurts again..hehehe
From now on, I shall call KZ, Dr. KZ…hehehhe
Ok.. enough said about the team and Dr KZ….
Hmmmmmmmm….emosi, emotions, emotional…
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June 30th, 2008 | Posted in My 2cents | 3 Comments
I heard my friend saying the other day, ‘ala….why do I need to look for bf? I’m happy the way I am…. I don’t want to have problems la…..don’t care la….if I’m not married by then, I won’t bother looking for life partner.’
She is in her early thirties mind you…
Is it a trend now?
Love does not seem to be a glory nowadays……
Its ok if you’re not in love….it is not a weird thing.
Don’t worry about being branded as not being a ‘pure’ guy or a ‘pure’ lady just because you’re not in love….
There are loads of people out there who do not seem to enjoy being in love…
It is either you have failed in love or you do not want to give it a try at all.
Of course, love does not come easy and it is definitely not cheap….you have to pay a ‘price’ for it. you need to sacrifice. so that could be another reason that turns someone off the moment the love bug crops up.
Ok….if you do not want to look for love, would you allow yourself to be loved?
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May 23rd, 2008 | Posted in Dilemma | No Comments
